DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for nine years and have four children, ages 5, 3, 2 and 9 months. For the past three years, my husband has attended a week-long music festival where he camps with a group of friends, many of whom are single. He met most of them at this particular party.
When they attend these shows, they use psychedelics and other party drugs. The arena is wild, with scantily clad women and people partying to the max. I explained to him how much it bothers me and that I don’t believe this is the best environment for a married man with four young children. I think it threatens our marriage. He says that I can “come if I want”, but that I would have to find daycare for the week (an option that we no longer have since the loss of our parents).